Thursday, March 07, 2013

What is love to you?

I am going to Korea again next week! Have been delaying my trip 'cause I wasn't sure when General Elections are going to be. -__- Had to stay put because I wanted to vote. Then when it was clear that GE won't be anytime this month, I quickly booked my trip!

By the way, all of you have registered to vote ya! *pointed stare*

So in true tradition (i.e. everytime before I go to Korea I will start digging through my old photo albums wtf), I am going to post some outfit photos from Korea!

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Such a beautiful day! Unfortunately it is supposedly still snowing in Korea now FML.


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After you hit 25, it becomes increasingly awkward to take self-shots without feeling like a douchebag wtf.

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Took off my tweed jacket to show off the details of my, erm, inner jacket wtf. Yes, I wore 2 jackets... It was really cold!

We were at Seoul station btw!

Outfit details:
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Black statement chiffon tee: Korea
Pale pink rosette jacket: AZORIAS
Black tweed jacket: Korea

Jeans: Wrangler
Statement necklace: Korea
Black spiked and crystal-studded flats: Zara
Bag: Miu Miu

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And we had grilled eel for dinner at night! So yummy that I could even shake off the feeling that I was eating water snakes wtf.

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To make this entry less patronizing wtf, I am going to share a paragraph which I came across while surfing just now:

"Sometimes when people say “I love you, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, ‘till death do us part”, what they really mean is, “I will love you until I feel like it, until problems arise, until we fight and until it gets hard - then I’ll stop.” That’s the thing. We only love people until we feel like it. We only stick with them while things are flawless. We leave the moment things get hard. We commit to people based on how we feel at the moment. We let our feelings tell us what to do. But that’s not what love is about. When you love someone, you don’t leave them even when they’re at their worst, you don’t give up even when the world concludes your other half as hopeless, you stick with them and you do everything for them even at that time when they can do nothing for you. Cause that’s what love means. Giving when you receive nothing, staying when everyone left, loving without being loved and sometimes it means choosing them over everything, even yourself."

Felt like sharing this 'cause it resonates with me. I guess, this is kind of my... love philosophy? Some people might think I am really silly, but I do honestly believe that's what love is. Not to love someone because of something, but to love someone despite of everything.

What is love to you? :)

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7 comments:

ms.bulat said...

have a good time in korea! (like u usually do!:)

couldn't agree more with what you have shared. as the saying goes, "We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

niss said...

'After you hit 25, it becomes increasingly awkward to take self-shots without feeling like a douchebag wtf.'


i totally agree haha

Eve said...

hahhaha! i cant help but agree on your douchebag selfshot theory *sadly*

love the pink jacket !

Eve said...

hahhaha! i cant help but agree on your douchebag selfshot theory *sadly*

love the pink jacket !

revel in me said...

ms bulat: Thanks dear! :) But am going alone this time, which is not as fun as when I have company! T_T Love that quote btw! :)


niss and eve: Haha I hope you girls are on the wrong of 25 too haha

Jessie said...

We said our vows during wedding ceremony and those words I still remembered and always will. Sometimes its hard when u r always fighting but once u remember the words of your wedding vows and see the wedding ring as a reminder of your commitment it will be easier. Love is a choice, it is a commitment that we constantly and consciously make the choice everyday of our life.

Jessie said...

We said our vows during wedding ceremony and those words I still remembered and always will. Sometimes its hard when u r always fighting but once u remember the words of your wedding vows and see the wedding ring as a reminder of your commitment it will be easier. Love is a choice, it is a commitment that we constantly and consciously make the choice everyday of our life.